Dear Readers, As Salaamu Alaikum!
Everybody wants to have good friends. A person is known by the company he keeps. Just as it is important to have good friends in our life, it is more important to have “righteous” friends who encourage you to do good and forbid evil, who not only help you in this world but also contribute in making your Hereafter better.
You should have good friends who correct your mistakes and inform you about the consequences of your actions. If good company is sought in the course of worldly journeys and travel, what should be the case in the travel of the Hereafter where the believer is in greater need to have a righteous helper and an agreeable companion who would be, in relation to his friend, like two hands that wash the other.They are righteous people who guide you to the way of righteousness and direct you with their kind words if you commit an undutiful or a semi-undutiful act.
Hence, it becomes mandatory to get rid of bad friends who are the reason behind every catastrophe. You should know, especially in this stage of adolescence, that friends are chosen by the adolescent according to his desire and inclination. The grave problem is that this test often comes spontaneously where the child grows up with a neighbor at school or university. This friend may become the reason behind his undutifulness through absorbing behavior due to frequent interaction over a period of time. So, you should select your friends cautiously and deliberately.
Remember on the Day of Resurrection, we all will be questioned with regards to our friends, our behavior with them, how we used to treat our friends, did we encourage them to do good or whether we were partner in doing evil. Because the friendship we have in this world with some person is carried forward on the Day of Judgement as well. Az-Zuhd, Of Ibn Al-Mubaarak, #368 has given a small description of The Fate Of Friendship In The Hereafter.