Part of our being human is also
that we make mistakes. Sometime, we make mistakes without deliberation and
intention. But sometime we knowingly and deliberately sin and do wrong to
others. It is said, “to err is human and to forgive is divine.” Both parts of
this statement are very true. As human beings we are responsible, but we do
also make mistakes and we are constantly in need of forgiveness. Islam speaks
about two aspects of forgiveness: a) Allah’s forgiveness; b) Human forgiveness.
We need both, because we do wrong in our relations to Allah as well as in our
relations to each other.
A.
Allah’s Forgiveness:
Allah Almighty is the
Oft-Forgiving. There are many Names of Allah given in the Qur’an. Some of these
Names are related to His mercy and forgiveness. Let me mention some of these
names:
1-Al-Ghafoor (The Oft-Forgiving): This name occurs
in the Qur’an more than seventy times. There are other names from the same
root, such as Ghafir andGhaffar. The
meaning of the Arabic word “ghafara” is to cover, to hide and
from it comes the meaning “to excuse”, “to pardon”, “to remit” and “to
forgive”. Allah Almighty does all these things. In the Qur’an, it is mentioned
that Allah does not forgive the Shirk (without repentance) but He may forgive every
other sin for whomsoever He wills. (al-Nisa’ 4:116) We must turn to Allah to
seek His forgiveness.
2-Al-`Afuw (The Pardoning): This has another
aspect of forgiveness. This Name occurs in the Qur’an five times. Literally the
Arabic word `Afw means “to release”, “to heal”, “to
restore”, “to remit”. Thus in relation to Allah it means “to release us from
the burden of punishment due to our sins and mistakes”, “to restore our honor
after we have dishonored ourselves by committing sins and making mistakes.” Sometimes
in the Qur’an both names: `Afuw and Ghafoorcome
together.
3-Al-Tawwab (The Acceptor of repentance): This
Name of Allah is mentioned in the Qur’an about 11 times. Allah accepts the
repentance of those who sincerely repent and turn to him. The Arabic word “tawwab”
gives the sense of “oft-returning” which means that Allah again and again
accepts the repentance. We make sins and mistakes then we repent, He accepts
our repentance. Then again we commit sins and make mistakes and when we repent,
He again very kindly accepts us and gives us another chance.
4-Al-Haleem (The Clement): This Name is mentioned
fifteen times in the Qur’an, and it means that Allah Almighty is not quick to
judgment. He gives time. He forebears and is patient to see His servant returning
to Him.
5-Ar-Rahman and ar-Raheem (Most Gracious and Most Merciful).
These Names are the most frequent in the Qur’an. Ar-Rahman is mentioned 57
times and ar-Raheem is mentioned 115 times. Ar-Rahman indicates that Allah’s grace is
abundant and plenty and al-Raheem indicates that this is always the case
with Allah. He is full of love and mercy and He is ever Merciful.
The Qur’an teaches that
Allah is a Judge and He also punishes, but Allah is not bound to punish. The
justice of Allah, according to Qur’an is that Allah does not and will not
inflict undue punishment on any person. He will not ignore the good of any
person. But if He wishes to forgive any sinner, He has full freedom to do that.
His mercy is unlimited and His love is infinite.
There are many verses in the Qur’an and Hadiths of the Prophet,
peace and blessings be upon him, on the love, mercy and forgiveness of Allah.
In one of the prayers that the Prophet taught, he said, “O Allah, You are Most
Forgiving One, You love to forgive, so forgive me.” (reported by at-Trimidhi and Ibn
Majah). We need Allah’s mercy and forgiveness all the time. It is wrong to
assume at any time that one will find eternal salvation without the forgiveness
of Allah.
B. Human
Forgiveness in Islam:
Just as it is important to believe in the mercy and forgiveness
of Allah, it is also necessary to base human relations on forgiveness. We
cannot expect Allah’s forgiveness unless we also forgive those who do wrong to
us. Forgiving each other, even forgiving one’s enemies is one of the most
important Islamic teachings. In the Qur’an Allah has described the Believers as “those who avoid major sins and
acts of indecencies and when they are angry they forgive.” (ash-Shura 42: 37) Later in the same
Surah Allah says, “The
reward of the evil is the evil thereof, but whosoever forgives and makes
amends, his reward is upon Allah.” (al-Shura 42: 40) In another place the
Qur’an says, “If
you punish, then punish with the like of that wherewith you were afflicted. But
if you endure patiently, indeed it is better for the patient. Endure you
patiently. Your patience is not except through the help of Allah.” (an-Nahl:126-127)
In one Hadith, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him,
said that Allah has commanded him about nine things; one of them he mentioned
was “that I forgive those who do
wrong to me.”
The Prophet, peace and
blessings be upon him, was the most forgiving person. He was ever ready to
forgive his enemies. When he went to Ta’if to call the people to Islam, its
people mistreated him. They abused him and hit him with stones.
He left the city humiliated and wounded. When he took shelter
under a tree, the angel of Allah visited him and told him that Allah sent him
to destroy the people of Ta’if because of their sin of mistreating their
Prophet. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, prayed to Allah to save
the people of Taif, because what they did was out of their ignorance. He said, “O Allah, guide these people,
because they did not know what they were doing.”
When he entered the city of Makkah after the victory, the
Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, had in front of him some of his
staunchest enemies. Those who fought him for many years, persecuted his
followers and killed many of them. Now he had full power to do whatever he
wanted to punish them for their crimes. It is reported that the Prophet, peace
and blessings be upon him, asked them, “What
do you think I shall do to you now?” They pleaded for mercy. The Prophet,
peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Today
I shall say to you what Joseph…” (referring to Prophet Yusuf, peace be
upon him, as mentioned in the Qur’an, Yusuf 12:92) “…said to his brothers, ‘No
blame on you today. Go, you are all free.” Soon they all came and accepted Islam
at his hands. He forgave even Hind who had caused the murder of his uncle
Hamza, may Allah be pleased with him. After killing him she had his body
mutilated and chewed his liver. When she accepted Islam, the Prophet, peace and
blessings be upon him, even forgave her.
A very striking example of forgiveness we find in the Qur’an in
reference to the most unfortunate event of “Slander of Sayyidah A’isha’”. Some
hypocrites of Madinah accused her. They tried to put dirt on her noble
character. One of the slanderers turned out to be Mistah, the cousin of
‘Aisha’s father, Abu Bakr. Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him, used to
give financial help to this young man. After he slandered his daughter, Abu
Bakr vowed not to help him any more. But Allah reminded Abu Bakr and through
him all the Believers, “Let
not those among you who are endued with grace and amplitude of means resolve by
oath against helping their kinsmen, those in want and those who migrated in the
path of Allah. Let them forgive and overlook. Do you not wish that Allah should
forgive you? Indeed Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Al-Nur 24:22) Abu Bakr, may Allah be
pleased with him, came out of his home and said, “Yes, indeed, I want Allah’s
forgiveness.” He not only continued to help him but he gave him more.
Islam emphasizes justice
and punishment of the wrong doers, but it equally strongly emphasizes mercy,
kindness and love. Justice, law and order are necessary for the maintenance of
a social order, but there is also a need for forgiveness to heal the wounds and
to restore good relations between the people. We must keep in mind that as much
as we need Allah’s forgiveness for our own sins and mistakes, we must also
practice forgiveness towards those who do wrong to us.”
From: IslamOnline.net
