7.03.2013

Kindness for the poor & unfortunate - Al lesson of Ramadhan



The Hadeeth  says that Ramadhan is the month of sympathy and kindness, especially for the poor and needy. Sympathy should be of a practical nature. When ten things are placed before us for iftaar, at least two or four of them should be set aside for the poor and needy. They should be treated more favourably, if not then at least equally and should certainly be remembered. The Sahaabah were living examples in showing sympathy for the poor, it is our duty to follow or at least try to follow them.

In the matter of sacrifice and sympathy, only the brave can follow the examples of Sahaabah . There are many instances which will leave one in amazement if mentioned.

Let us see the following example, Abu Jahm relates that, during the battle of Yarmouk, he went in search of his cousin, taking with him a water bag to give him to drink and also wash his wounds if he was found alive or wounded. He found him lying among the wounded. When I asked him whether he wanted some water, he said


‘Yes’. At that moment someone near him moaned. My cousin pointed to that person indicating that I should first give him the water. I went to him and found that he too needed water, but just as I was about to give him the water, a third person groaned near him. The second one pointed to this third person meaning that I should give the third one to drink first. I went to the third person but before he could drink, I found out that he had passed away, I then returned to the second one only to find that he too had passed away. When I came back to my cousin, he too had become a shaheed.
This is the type of caring character our Sahaabah had. They preferred to die thirsty rather than to drink before a Muslim brother.



May Allah be pleased with them all and grant us ability to follow in their footsteps. Aameen


Another Hadeeth says that whoever feeds the hungry, clothes the naked and gives shelter to the traveller, Allah shall save him from the terrors of Qiyaamah. Further, Rasulullah (saw)mentioned the virtue of feeding a fasting person at the time of breaking the fast. In one Hadeeth it is reported that one who feeds a person out of his Halaal earnings to break the fast, the Malaaikah grant mercy upon him during the nights of Ramadhaan, and Jibraeel(a.s) shakes hands with him on Laylatul Qadr. The sign of this is that his heart becomes soft and tears flow from his eyes.

During Ramadhaan, Hammad bin Salamah, a very famous Muhaddith, used to feed fifty people every day at iftaar. (Roohul Bayan)

Thereafter, the Hadeeth of Rasulullah (saw)called the first section (i.e. first 10 days) of Ramadhaan the coming of mercy, which means that Allah’s favour is with the believers. Those who are thankful to Allah for His bounties will receive even more. The Qur’aan says:

“If you are thankful, I will surely grant you more.”

During the second section (i.e. the second 10 days) of Ramadhaan, forgiveness begins to come down as a reward for fasting during the first section. The last section (i.e. the last 10 days) of Ramadhaan brings protection from entrance into Jahannam. This is supported by many similar Ahaadeeth.

In my personal opinion, Ramadhaan has been divided into three sections because people are normally of three different kinds. Firstly, there are those who have no sins. For them Allah’s mercy and Bounties come from the very beginning of Ramadhaan. Secondly, there are those whose sins are not too heavy, for them forgiveness comes after one third of Ramadhaan has passed. Thirdly, there are the



real sinners. For them forgiveness comes after having fasted most of Ramadhaan. Those who received Allah mercy right at the beginning are the very fortunate ones because of the great amount of mercy they have received. (And Allah knows best).

Another point mentioned in the Ahaadeeth is that masters should be merciful to their servants in Ramadhaan because, after all, they too are fasting. Unnecessary hard work or too much of it will be difficult for them. An extra worker should be hired when the work is too much. That of course, only applies when the servant himself fasts; otherwise there is no difference for them between Ramadhaan and any other month.

Lastly, Rasulullah (saw)encouraged four things in the Hadeeth that should be repeated constantly. Firstly, the recitation of Kalimah Tayyibah, which in the Ahaadeeth is called the highest form of zikr. In Mishkat, Abu Saeed Khudri reports: Once Nabi Moosa begged of Allah to grant him a special zikr by which he can remember Allah and also (by which he could) ask Him. Allah then told him to recite the Kalimah Tayyibah. Sayyidina Moosa said, “O Allah! this is a zikr recited by all your servants, I wish for a special zikr.” Allah replied, “O Moosa, if the seven heavens, the earth and all its occupants including the Malaaikah but excluding Myself (i.e. excluding Allah Himself) are placed on one side of a scale and this Kalimah on the other, then this Kalimah will weigh heavier than everything else.

In another Hadeeth it is stated, Should anyone sincerely recite this Kalimah, the doors of Jannah open up for him immediately and nothing can stop him from reaching Allah arsh (throne). The only condition is that the reciter should stay away from major sins.

The Kalimah Tayyibah is the most excellent form of zikr. Allah has made it for everybody, so that none is deprived of it. Therefore, if any person is deprived of it, it is his own fault. There are many Ahaadeeth showing its rewards.



The second thing which should be recited plentifully is istighfaar. The Ahaadeeth report many rewards of istighfaar. In one Hadeeth we read, “Whoever makes much Istighfaar, Allah opens a way out for him from all problems and removes all sadness from him. He also receives rizq (food, money etc.) from unexpected places.” In another Hadeeth, Rasulullah (saw) said that, “Every man is a sinner, but the best among the sinners are those who repent and ask for forgiveness.” In one Hadeeth it is mentioned that, “When a man commits a sin, a black spot forms on his heart, but when he asks for forgiveness, it is washed away , if not, the black spot remains”.
 

Thereafter, Rasulullah (saw) commanded us to beg two things which we cannot do without, firstly to beg Allah for entrance into Jannah and secondly to ask for protection in Him from Jahannam.

May Allah    grant us this good fortune. (Aameen)

Best Wishes